Friday, July 30, 2010

Periods, Pain, The Pill and why some dumb arses still think it's all about sex and birth control!

Yes that's right.

Some dumb arses still think if their child goes on the pill, also known as birth control, then that's EXACTLY why they want it.

I highly doubt it.

SERIOUSLY!!!!!!

If you're child is going to have sex, they ain't thinking about birth control of ANY kind, that means no pill, no condoms, and that's the one thing they NEED to be worrying about.

Most girls will not get on the pill before having sex, they JUST DO IT.

Go you Nike ad!

The whole point of this post is talking about period pain, menstrual cycle hell, that monthly visitor that wreaks havoc on your digestive system, skin, stomach etc,etc,

You girls know what I mean.

Scoman.....well, you may, or may not, so you're excused from this post if you don't feel comfortable.

It's been my week from hell this week. Although technically I only started on Wednesday, and it will go until Monday/Tuesday ish.

Maybe it has something to do with going to the chiro on Wednesday as well. Apparently I was having a muscle spasm in my right side hip area, and that's where my pain is.

The pain I told y'all about last year which is why I had my laparoscopy to find out what was wrong. And although there's technically nothing wrong, there's still pain on Wednesdays and Thursdays of my cycle. Story is here.

Even my gynie was surprised when I told him it was like clockwork.

But this week the pain sucks.

And that was why, all those years ago, I went on the pill at 18.

I'd had my cycle since 11, and I used to go home during the day so I could change. The school would ring mum, she'd come and get me, take me home, I'd change then she'd take me back.

The kids in the class soon figured something was going on, and I think I was the first to have it. And that was year 6!

Year 7 was not much better. Everyone in the grade knew, even the boys.

Dear God!!!!!!!

And then high school was just as bad with me ending up in the sick room with a hot water bottle on my stomach. The pain was so intense I couldn't walk. And I had started carrying pads in my bag "just in case".

Those years sucked. The pain was horrendous, the timing was never normal, and I was living in hell.

So I finally went on the pill and hallelujah the pain subsided, and they became regular.

FOR THE FIRST TIME IN 7 FUCKING YEARS!!!!!

But the last few years I've had probs, so I don't know if it will ever be gone or not.

But the point is people JUST BECAUSE YOUR CHILD WANTS TO GO ON THE PILL DON'T AUTOMATICALLY ASSUME IT'S FOR BIRTH CONTROL, IT COULD BE FOR PERIOD PAIN!!!!

But nooooooo, parents have their head up their arses when it comes to teaching their kids about sex. They don't want to do it and don't want the teachers at school to do it so they leave their kids flailing around in the sea of periods, sex, and unwanted pregnancy. And THEN they wonder how their kids got pregnant and blah, blah, FUCKING BLAH!!!!

Dear fucking nit wit parent,

if your child comes to you and says their periods hurt and want to go on the pill to fix it, talk to them. Don't automatically ASSUME they want it for birth control and it's coz they're going to have sex. It's NOT ALL ABOUT SEX YOU KNOW. The pill for regulating menstrual pain is incredibly valid and worthwhile.

STOP FUCKING ASSUMING IT'S ALL ABOUT SEX.

STOP FUCKING ASSUMING YOUR KIDS ARE HAVING SEX.

STOP FUCKING ASSUMING YOU'VE ACTUALLY GOT A BRAIN IN YOUR HEAD BECAUSE YOU DON'T.

STOP FUCKING ASSUMING YOU KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT THE WORLD AND WHAT GOES ON IN IT BECAUSE YOU DON'T.

AND STOP FUCKING ASSUMING THAT THE PILL WILL STOP YOUR KIDS GETTING PREGNANT IF THEY TAKE IT. IT WON'T.

Dear fucking nit wit parent,

please pull your head out of your arse, grow a brain and get over yourself. THIS IS NOT ABOUT YOU, HAVING SEX, OR EVEN THINKING ABOUT HAVING SEX COZ BELIEVE ME, THE PILL WILL NOT STOP YOUR KIDS HAVING SEX.

EDUCATION WILL STOP YOUR KIDS HAVING SEX. AND BEING NEUTERED WILL STOP THEM GETTING PREGNANT!

See, going on the pill is not such a big deal.

glad to be on the pill for half of my lifetime, Jewels xxoo

2 comments:

  1. It's fair to say I'm no expert on the pill, but I once had a friend tell me she was only on the pill to control her acne.

    Like you said, it's about more than birth control.

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  2. Didn't help mine until I changed it about 4 times and got on one that actually controlled acne! Not all do.

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